It is not fair but often it seems like life, and the world are not fair. We often see bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people.

We miss the people lost but the way we honor them is to live our lives day by day. Remember them and live our lives in a way that would make them proud.

Grief is like a scar, it lessens with time. Never completely disappearing, nor should it because it reminds us of how much we cared about those who were close to us.

I know you and Abi were close, I’ve never been through anything even remotely like what you had to go through. The only advice I can give you is to treasure the memories you have but still manage to live on. Like Janus looking back, remembering the past, but also looking toward your future.

Dan