Mixed emotions
Posted by nevermore on 30 Jan 2009 10:17 pm.
In a week’s time it’ll be my birthday, and all I can think about is how much I miss Abi. It’s just not fair
In a week’s time it’ll be my birthday, and all I can think about is how much I miss Abi. It’s just not fair
On October 1st, 2009 at 23:49
I’m sorry I haven’t checked up on you for so long (with it being October now)
It is not fair but often it seems like life, and the world are not fair. We often see bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people.
We miss the people lost but the way we honor them is to live our lives day by day. Remember them and live our lives in a way that would make them proud.
Grief is like a scar, it lessens with time. Never completely disappearing, nor should it because it reminds us of how much we cared about those who were close to us.
I know you and Abi were close, I’ve never been through anything even remotely like what you had to go through. The only advice I can give you is to treasure the memories you have but still manage to live on. Like Janus looking back, remembering the past, but also looking toward your future.
Dan